What My Three-Year-Old Taught Me This Week
Happy August. I’m going to keep this message short– I’m a few days behind with this newsletter already, because this week is my first week fully back in the office and it’s busy! But I’ve been thinking about a recent interaction I had with my older son. He’s three, which means that lots of my time is spent like this. Lots of sobbing, lots of tantrums.
The other day, though, my son surprised me. We were on the way to his swimming lesson, and he was eating goldfish crackers in the back seat. He decided that he was done, and (like always) insisted on passing them to me rather than endure the torture of having to hold a bag containing crackers he no longer wanted to eat. Since I was also busy driving the car, I missed the pass. The bag fell, crackers scattered everywhere. I was immediately annoyed. Why couldn’t you just HOLD THE BAG FOR THREE MORE MINUTES?! GAHHHH, CRACKERS ALL OVER MY CLEAN CAR.
But (luckily) before I said any of this out loud, I heard a little voice from the back seat. “Dat okay, mom! We clean it up later!”
He was right. We could clean it up later. It was only Goldfish. It was okay.
That’s exactly what I want to teach him– that when he breaks his crayon, when we turn off the Paw Patrol, when we expect him to eat broccoli, when he temporarily can’t find a specific toy or treasure, when he gets older and runs into bigger disappointments, makes bigger mistakes– that it’s ultimately okay. That we have the power to choose to roll with even the things that are frustrating, upsetting, or don’t turn out the way we’d hoped– to choose the size of our reaction, the amount of energy or room we let these things occupy in our minds and lives. When we can put those ideas into practice, we’re better role models for our kids… AND our own lives are more peaceful.
There have of course been a million other times this week (uh, even during this one DAY) at which my kid has escalated into hysteria over something completely minor. After all, he’s three, and this is what three year-olds do. But I’m trying to remind myself that no matter what happens, hey, DAT OKAY.
Hope that this reminder is also helpful for you. Wishing all of you a wonderful week.our spot now! More sessions for kids of different ages and their parents TBS.
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